Could be related to the phrase “What can I do you for ? ” ; The subject of the help being a moral or physical entity, and as an external category : the self-centered subject, the yourself.
What help can you bring ? And now, how ?
As a first movement I strongly believe in listening. You must be attentif watchful to what the other party, that is, a human being or related to humans in some indirect ways, is in need for. There, you have it ! I would say you have now just to follow your own heart, and not the ones from Facebook and other short reels !
That is, if you didn’t loose your heart before. If you didn’t get in this cause from following the hearts and likes on social media, merit badges from elite architectured groups, and other praises given by a youtube gourou. It is easy to engage (in help?.) a thing coming from a place of despair and anthropophobia. Yes, the human mind can hate and love at the same time over related subjects, it’s his duty to make sens of it and evolve accordingly.
