In other words, discover every time someone for who they are at the moment.
Don’t expect someone to have the same way of livin, the same point of view as the time before. It’s being lazy. It’s not accepting people can evolve. As the despiccable expression says “People don’t change”, you are accepting that no one is redeemable, that they won’t think by themselves.
Shame on you. As if you wouldn’t dare to see yourself changing over time. Allright if you know who you are and accept it, not allright if you think every body feels okay with themselves.